March 27-28 Aidan's sleepover

Friday night/Saturday:  I picked Aidan up from his house after his school day this afternoon. He was already packed (almost) and ready to go! Since Aidan really enjoys shakes from "Culver's", I decided we would get one that he could take to my house and drink it leisurely throughout the evening. 

We pulled up to Culver's and were almost to the ordering microphone when I began to look for my purse so that I could have my money ready ... but ... I didn't have my purse with me! Oh no! What had happened was that I had arrived over at Aidan's about 30 minutes prior to his bus arriving and I had gone down in their basement to visit with Brendan for a little bit and left my purse down there. 

D-U-M-B. 

SO ... we got out of line at Culver's and drove back to Aidan's house where I retrieved my purse, and then we drove back to Culver's where we finally ordered and paid for Aidan's MINT shake. I'm weird about food and drinks being consumed in my car (I've always been this way--and I've never allowed it!). Aidan already knew this about his cranky old grandma and accepted the fact that he would not drink it until we got to my house.

We hung out for awhile at my little house and waited to eat our supper until it was after 6:00! Actually, it was closer to 7:00 by the time we were actually eating. I'm glad I pre-made the French toast and bacon for Aidan. He loves both of those items--it's sometimes difficult to find something that Aidan really enjoys eating! 

Aidan finds a lot to do at my house. He doesn't actually need me for anything. I do not "entertain" him because he does this all by himself. He knows where I keep everything around here, so he just helps himself. He really likes making things and keeps himself occupied very well. 

This is what Aidan ate for supper. I grilled myself a ham and cheese sandwich, which Aidan was very happy to not eat.

After we were finished eating, I popped some popcorn while Aidan was choosing which movie we would watch. He chose "Incredible Journey" !! It is a classic movie after all. I really loved watching it with Aidan, just like I enjoyed watching it with Brendan.

After the movie was over, I was cleaning up some stuff and looked around and didn't see Aidan. Guess where he was? He had tucked himself into bed for the night in the spare room, upper bunk! I was super surprised, but Aidan said he was really tired and seemed just fine to go to sleep, which is what he did.

We were awake a little before 7:00 this morning. We sat on my couch and read from "Snoopy Beagle Scout" for about a half hour and cracked up. Charles Schultz is an amazing author/illustrator. I snapped a picture of the other Snoopy titles these guys don't own yet, so that I can order some of them in the future.

We played a game of Battle Box, which I naturally lost. I haven't ever won a this game, not that I can remember. Aidan was a lot of fun to play this with. He seems so much happier this year than he was last year and I am so thankful for this. It just seems that he has settled way down, seems way less frustrated with himself and others, and is very nice to be with. Thank you, Lord. Growing up is tough sometimes, but Aidan sure has super nice parents who love their kiddos.

We also spent a lot of time making Origami boxes that Aidan was going to join together to make an Origami shape-thingy (I can't remember what he called it) ... oh ... an Infinity something-or-other. While we were folding all of the squares and boxes, I showed Aidan the video of Jacob Collier doing improvisation with an orchestra in San Francisco. Aidan really enjoyed watching and listening to it!

Look at all of our boxes!

Aidan has a very nice suitcase. I can't believe how much stuff he puts inside it and still is able to zip it! He brought his personal LION'S blanket (super soft) and about three or four of his "stuffies" too, along with a change of clothes and a few other items. This is when he was gathering his stuff from around my house as we were preparing to go out to lunch at Culver's.

I brought my magnet game with us to Culver's and I lost again! We only played one game because they brought our food out pretty quickly, so we just enjoyed eating and talking.

It sure was nice to have you overnight, Aidan. I am a very blessed grandma to have you for a grandson. Love you so much.

May 26 "In This World Together"

Thursday Evening:  The third graders (including our very own Aidan Paul Pahman) from Meadow Brook Elementary School gave a spring concert over at Northern High School last night. It was so delightful! The program was titled: "In This World Together!" and featured beautiful songs from all over the place--China, Nigeria, and others. 

Let me show you some pictures ...

Since Aidan needed to be at the high school 15 minutes prior to the performance, his mama and siblings secured front-row seats while we waited for everything to begin. PERFECT.

Here are Cal and Erin. Cal is sitting next to his mom, asking her questions about her phone (I think). Erin was "horsing around" with me, asking me to take funny pictures of her. She cracks me up.

Here is Brendan, who always loves music and a good concert ...

Here are the three siblings of our performer (Aidan) posing for cute pictures ...

Promptly at 6:30, the third graders from Meadow Brook filed in orderly and took their places on the risers. See Aidan in the front row, third from the right?

I thought he looked very nicely dressed in his blue Husky hoodie and blue tennis shoes.

The concert began with "In This World Together" with motions and all kinds of happiness.

These children also sang a few songs in other languages--such as Mandarin and a language from Nigeria. Very impressive.

These 3rd graders learned all of these beautiful songs and motions from their incredible music teacher, Jackie Schoon. She is one amazing woman. Very gifted and so inspirational. To actually accomplish what she did with eight and nine-year-olds was super impressive. The children followed her lead, did what she showed them to do, read from script at microphones, sang in smaller musical groups, played percussion and other cool instruments--she was BORN to be a teacher.

Look at the children on the right playing percussion. They did it so well!

Five of the children played GLOCKENSPIEL! Look at Aidan (below)!

Look how intense Aidan is!

It looks like he is really having a good time, doesn't it?!

I have the titles of all the songs right in front of me on the printed program, and I know the song they did with these candles was near the end--so perhaps it was the reprise of "In This World Together", but it was very nicely done and the candles were such a nice effect.

What beautiful children! What a blessing to be here tonight with Kelly (Dylan was speaking at a conference downtown and could not alter his plans) and the rest of the family. 

I only have ONE other comment to make, but I really feel strongly about it--and I am not blaming the music teacher, or Forest Hill Schools or anything like that--because it's a rather universal (mis)practice ... "The Golden Rule". Who originated it? Is anyone taught that JESUS is the One who spoke these words?

Matthew 7.12: "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets." Luke states the same thing in his Gospel account. And then there's Christ's quote in Mark 12:31, which follows the greatest commandment to love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and strength ..."The second is this: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'" 

The reason I make this comment at all is that I think people assume this saying was made up by some very "good" people somewhere and that it is a GOOD saying and we ought to use it as an example for our lives. Except that this is GOD's Word and HIS ways that are always perfect and should be imitated. He says many places in Scripture that He will not give His glory to another, and I just feel that NOT attributing this awesome statement to the correct Author, is stealing from His glory. Enough said.

I had a wonderful time tonight. Love these kiddos so much.

March 24 Happiness

Tuesday:  I had lunch today with my friends from Bible study, Julie and Jenn. We eat lunch every Tuesday over at Russ' and order their yummy fried chicken. We had such a nice time together today. I am so thankful for good friends like these.

I arrived over at Dylan and Kelly's shortly after 1:00 and did some cleaning and picking up around the place. Their front room was a bit crowded from big boxes with shelving units inside, so I didn't do any cleaning in there. Soon, Brendan was home from school and we visited for a short while before the other kiddos came home.

A few weeks ago when Brendan had his overnight here, we were watching some short videos I had saved to show him. One of them was of five brothers who were using large plastic buckets and sticks as drums--they were super talented, and it looked like so much fun. Yesterday, while I was out and about, I picked up a Lowe's bucket and a set of dowels and tried it out. It worked! It doesn't sound like a real drum by any stretch of the imagination, but it's very fun to do percussion on it anyway. So I brought this over to the kid's house to see if they would like playing on it. They did! Especially Aidan. I'm keeping it at my house, though, because the kids would drive their parents crazy with how the noise would echo all over the house with no relief whatsoever.

We hung out together for a few hours--we played a few games, we ate snacks, we talked about their day, and we had a very nice time. Dylan came home from work and I left shortly thereafter because my back was aching terribly--I just needed to come here and lie down for a little while and then I felt better. It was super nice to be with these guys today. Aidan has a "concert" Thursday night over at the high school, so I will see them all then.

March 21 Home Again

Saturday:  My flight was ON TIME--we actually took off a few minutes early from St. Petersburg. What a totally packed plane it was too! I always reserve a window seat, so I enjoyed watching the sun rise while we took off ...

Can you see the little circle surrounded by light just below the wing of the plane? I think it is the plane's shadow being reflected against the clouds by the sun! The flight was completely unremarkable, and landed at GRR about 15 minutes early. Jesse was already waiting for me in the "cell lot" outside the airport. Thank you for being my chauffeur, Jesse!

For some reason, it's always good to get home. I love my little house. Look at the beautiful flowers Kelly had picked up for me the Tuesday before my trip. I wondered if they would still be pretty when I returned home, and they were. I removed a few dead flowers, freshened up the water, and had four more days to enjoy them before they died.

Now it was time to unpack my suitcase and my backpack (which is actually bigger than the suitcase) which I did right after I ate lunch. It always feels good to unpack, do laundry, and get back to "normal."

It was wonderful being with my brother for nine days. He has always been such a good gift to me. Even when we were really young and I had to "babysit" him, or mom would say: "Go play with your brother!" he was never a burden or a problem. He just has one of those fun personalities that is great to be around. I most likely will not see him again until he comes north over Labor Day weekend. If I do see him before then, it will mean someone has died--so I guess I need to just look forward to September, even though it seems far away. Love to you, David.

March 20 Other things we did

Since David and I traveled up to Georgia (a nine-hour drive one way) and needed to stay a few nights to support family, we ended up having to be in hotels for four of the nights I was on vacation. What to do in a hotel room after one is winding down from seeing family?

Thankfully, David brought his Parchesi game along for just that reason! It's always fun to play games with David, and we had so much fun playing this game during our trip. We played a total of 37 (yes, you read that correctly) games. My brother says that I am "so lucky" all during our games when I just miss getting "sent home", but if you look at the final tally of the games, he won SEVEN more games than I did!

We also watched a little bit of TV at the end of our day--sometimes "Jeopardy" or "Wheel of Fortune". I also asked if they would watch a much recommended movie with me from Prime. Jesse shared this movie with me just after Christmas, and I loved it so much. "Warrior" is an amazing story. David and Carol liked it so much, we watched it Wednesday evening and then again Friday evening! There is just so much packed into this story that I think you could see it over and over again and still learn new things about the characters. 

We got to stop at a "Buc-Ees" gas station while we were traveling to Georgia, which is always fun. Buc-Ees is a gas station with an enormous store attached full of souvenirs, yummy food, and just about every item under the sun. Thankfully, they had blankets too--I needed one for the truck rides because David is a warmer bodied person than I am and needed the truck to be cool enough to where he wouldn't fall asleep while driving. So I looked around for a blanket--there were very nice ones that probably would have looked nice in my little Beach House back in Grand Rapids, but I didn't feel like spending $25 on a blanket. Thankfully, they also stocked "Buc-Ee" blankets, same size as the $25 ones, but these ones were $15. It really is the softest blanket I have ever had! This blanket was used a LOT during the next few days, and I was so thankful to have it. No one likes "whining" while driving, i.e. "it's too cold in here," "can you turn some heat on?", "I'm freezing to death!", etc. Wrapped in my super soft Buc-Ee blanket, I was as happy as a clam (before it is fried).

I had to be dropped off at the St. Petersburg airport (PIE) at 5:30 am Saturday, so I made sure all of my stuff was packed for the flight and then went to bed.

March 20 Caladesi Island

Friday:  David had some extensive yard work to accomplish Friday morning, so while he was busy doing that, I took a walk in the "park" where they live. The "park" where he lives is nearly as big as Leisure Village (where I live), but I don't think it is as spread out--I could be wrong. Anyway, I walked down his street to check out the pond and the fountain, hoping with all my might there would be an alligator out sunning itself on the grassy banks.

Look! There is even a "DO NOT FEED ALLIGATORS" sign posted right at the edge of the pond. It's illegal and it's dangerous (the sign claims) to feed the wildlife. David told me that perhaps two years ago, they DID haul an alligator out of this pond and put it in a pond less frequented by old folks. Probably a good idea.

Once David was finished with his "to-do list", we drove to Caladesi Island in the afternoon. This is an uninhabited barrier island near Dunedin (pronounced DUN-E-DEN, NOT DUNE-DIN). It was a beautiful day (sunshine from start to finish), and this was my last afternoon to be in Florida. MUST GO TO THE BEACH!!

However, I told David that a trip to Florida would hardly be legit without a meal at "Frenchies", and he was very agreeable to oblige, reminding me that we had eaten enough fried food to put an extra 10# on the both of us (that might have been me that said that). David ordered the fried shrimp, and I ordered the fried groupie. YUM. We split the orders and shared. 

After lunch, we took a ferry over to the island. The ferry "captain" was a very funny man, and told as many corny jokes as he could get away with as he took us over to the island. The ferry dropped us off not far from the beach, with clean bathrooms right near the ferry docks.

David found us a "sheltered" spot among the trees, which helped to shield us from the gusting winds (!!) and provide me with a little bit of shade. I had no intention of adding to my sunburn this afternoon. David had plenty of sunscreen, so I used it.

We were far enough from the water that it felt like we were the only ones on the island! David told me this is his favorite thing to do--go to a busy beach, find a quiet isolated spot, and enjoy the solitude!

I sat with him for awhile, but I figured if I walked a bit, I could maybe work off some of the extra calories I had put on over the last few days--plus, I have never been on Caladesi Island in my entire life and needed to explore it a little bit. Maybe if I walked real fast, I could get warm!

You can't really see from these pictures, but you can walk quite a distance down the beach. There were a few others out walking away from the crowd, looking for shells and other treasures--I enjoyed myself 100% doing that very thing. 

There was an important corporate meeting of the seagulls of the Gulf being held ...

... they were not a bit bothered by me walking this close to them! They were all standing on ONE skinny leg discussing the woes of the world.

I hated to leave them, but I was nearly frozen solid after walking for about 30 minutes. I rejoined David and wrapped my Buc-ees blanket around myself, along with David's unused beach towel, and took a little nap. It was a wonderful afternoon.