February 3 Brendan's Card

Tuesday:  This is the card I designed for Brendan's 14th birthday!

 These were all separate pages in Brendan's card that I stapled together to make a mini-book. I'm pretty sure he liked it.

February 3 Brendan's Birthday

Tuesday: Well--he's done it again--Brendan completely and absolutely ignored my mandate that he was NOT allowed to get a year older. I even threatened to remove February 3 from my calendar--ERASE IT! He knew I was only kidding ... but seriously ... it felt like yesterday he was turning FOUR not FOURTEEN.

I brought gifts over for Brendan today--his birthday fell on my usual cleaning day of Tuesday; and since it had been three weeks since I had actually shown up on a Tuesday over at their house, it had been three weeks since I had done any cleaning whatsoever. I arrived a little bit early today, unloaded my car of cleaning supplies, and walked around the main floor assessing what needed the most cleaning attention. I made some headway in the kitchen, but then I left and met my friend, Jen, for lunch from 11:30 - 12:30. 

I finished up the rest of my intended cleaning just about the time Brendan came home from school at 3:20. We visited for quite awhile. He was showing me a "preview" of a Nintendo game that is due out some time in April. He wanted me to see this very much, so I settled down on the couch with him and watched it for almost 30 minutes. That was a LONG preview!

The little kiddos came home at their usual time and we did our typical cinnamon toast snack with all four of them talking to me at once about their day. I tried to keep track of all of it, but I'm afraid I was more concerned about burning the toast in their toaster oven than keeping straight everyone's stories. 

I told Brendan we would open the gifts I brought for him once his parents came home from work. However, when Dylan got home from work it was just to change out of his work clothes and then have the kiddos and him pick Kelly up from work and go out for a birthday dinner for Brendan. They invited me to come to dinner with them, but I was a bit torn between just wanting to come home--my back has been bothering me the last few days, as well as my knees (yikes--I'm sounder older by the minute); so I asked Dylan if Brendan could open the gifts I brought over before they left for dinner.

Everyone tried to get in on the opening of Brendan's gifts ... but he handled it very nicely (as always).

It's difficult to see what is actually in these packages, so I'll just have to spell it out. The little square package has a cool blue magnetic shape maker (that is very difficult to describe in words). I should have taken a picture of it!

Here, Brendan is reading the 8-page birthday card I made for him that necessitated purchasing a special stapler so that I could put it all together for him.

It's very sweet how these guys enjoy my homemade cards.

Dylan, taking a closer look at the card. 

Here are two of the three Snoopy books I got for Brendan. I was hoping they didn't already have these three at the house--it turns out that they DID have one of the titles--but now it is Brendan's own personal copies. All of the kids really enjoy these books--I do too! I also got Brendan some knee, elbow and wrist pads for learning to use his skateboard (his folks got him one for Christmas!).

The grandchildren convinced me to join them for dinner, which I am very glad I did. We went to a restaurant I have never been to before, with excellent Chinese food. I was treated to my favorite--chicken fried rice AND crab rangoon! There was enough for TWO entire meals, so I ate the other half tonight for dinner--it was even better the second time around. Look how tired little Cal is (below).

I snapped 3-4 pictures before I left to go home, but I was at an awkward angle and never did get Aidan totally in any of the pictures.

It was very nice to be invited out tonight. Brendan really likes Ramen noodles, and this place had a ton of different choices mixed with all kind of yummy stuff. Cal ordered some too and ate it like a trooper--he and Brendan have similar palates and are easy to feed because of that. Erin didn't do as well with her meal, but she had eaten quite a bit with her afternoon snack, so hopefully she was okay. Aidan ordered plain rice and seemed to enjoy it too.

HAPPY 14th BIRTHDAY, Brendan. I don't suppose I can convince you to stay this age forever, so I'm not going to try. Anyway, no one in their right mind would want to be stuck in Middle School for the rest of their life! Sigh.

January 30/31 Overnight with Erin

Friday/Saturday:  After two very snowy weather weeks, FINALLY this Friday worked out for me to drive over and pick Erin up for a sleepover. Yes! There hasn't been any recent accumulation of snow in the last few days, and roads are finally treated to where they are no longer icy. I was so glad to pick Erin up today after school. I think she was quite surprised to see me!

In preparation for Erin's sleepover, I got out a few things we haven't played with in a very LONG time. I have two kind of fancy LEGO models that I keep high up on the toy room shelves, so they don't get all taken apart and the pieces mixed up with all of the other LEGOs that I have around here. However, I often forget completely about these sets--and then no one plays with them! Erin was very glad to see them off the shelf and available for her to enjoy them.

One set is a lighthouse (shock!) with an ice cream shop attached to it (complete with ice cream cones, milk shakes, etc). There is a little washroom/bathroom at the back of the ice cream shop, and there is a little bedroom above the shop. This model is part of the "Friends" sets. The other model is of a cute little treehouse. Erin loves treehouses. We had such a fun time pretending and making up stories with the little figures and sets. Erin is very good at pretending.

We also did a bunch of art stuff--Erin has kind of a 3-ring circus of activity going all the time--I could barely keep track of what we were doing next--but we did just fine.

Doesn't Erin have the sweetest little face?

Friday night we had a "movie" time, but the movie I chose wasn't exactly right I guess. "The Little Princess" moved a bit too slowly, and after about 20 minutes, Erin asked if we could just watch it some other time. Yes, of course. I told her to pick out something else, so she picked out "Despicable Me 2" and we watched a lot of it, skipping ahead of the parts she didn't like, and all the while eating popcorn and enjoying some leftover Christmas chocolates. Yum.

Saturday morning, I combed out Erin's hair--well, I tried to get the tangles out, but some of them were NOT going to go anywhere at all. But I took this picture when we were finished--doesn't Erin have pretty hair?

We played all morning with various toys, all the while with Erin talking and singing--we played the piano for awhile too. Erin was scheduled to go to her friend Emmaline's b-day party by 1:30, but then Kelly called and told us the party was actually earlier; so we gathered up Erin's stuff, got ourselves dressed, and left for Culver's by about 11:30. 

Erin enjoyed a very delicious Oreo milk shake (she was very kind and shared some with me) and had a cheeseburger (with cheese curls) child's meal. 

I love eating with Erin because she really enjoys eating! Me too!

Oh! We also did a LOT of bird watching while Erin was here. We didn't take exhaustive pictures, but this was when the blue jays came back and forth, in-between 2-3 very active and playful squirrels. Erin had a blast watching all of the scurrying around outside. I'm so glad I have all the feeders and such beautiful little creatures to enjoy watching.

Erin and I also read two books at bedtime Friday night. One was about a little lame lamb who felt left out of everything with the flock he lived with. He had to remain behind when the others went to better pasture, but that night, he got to keep baby Jesus warm after He was born--so he learned to be thankful even if he had a bad leg. The other book was about the healing of the Roman soldier's little boy in Capernaum. Erin knew a lot about both of these stories--it was really fun to listen to her as she interacted with the stories.

Bedtime was challenging--but I was not surprised. Thankfully, Erin finally got tired enough to fall asleep at about 11pm--but nothing was unpleasant about it, and I did not get grumpy this time. Thank you, Lord.

January 28 Hibernation Update

Wednesday:  It was actually warmer at the South Pole last week than it was here in Grand Rapids, Michigan. We had another "round" of several days in a row of more snow--just 2-3" at a time; but I bet we have 15" on the ground outside my little house. The drifts are much higher, and the plowing piles are reaching almost to the rooftops.

School was cancelled once again yesterday, as it was last Tuesday and also last Friday. I was supposed to have dear Erin overnight Friday, but I didn't venture out at all that day; in fact, the only time I have driven in the last almost two weeks was to church Sunday morning, and then last Thursday over to Family Fare (over on Northland) to get a few food items that I was completely out of (eggs, milk, etc.). 

I did go to Monday Night Bible study this week because it wasn't cancelled like it was last week--plus, snow was predicted to begin late evening Monday night and get quite heavy all day Tuesday (the forecast was correct). It was nice to once again be in my small group and enjoy the company of friends.

Tomorrow, I am going to attempt to grocery shop over at Meijer's. An elderly lady (Bev) from my Sunday school class at Calvary called this afternoon and requested a ride, both to Aldie's and to Meijer's tomorrow. I hope the roads have been cleared. I told her I would pick her up and we would get it done!

I took two pictures yesterday after I had shoveled my driveway:

We have had mostly single digit temperatures for most of the last 10 days. This Friday it is supposed to plunge down to -8 to start the day. Oh joy. I'm not at all a fan of severe cold. I dress in multiple layers just so that I can stand it, and even keeping my thermostat to 72 degrees doesn't really warm me very much. But now I'm just complaining. Pioneer Polly I am NOT.

January 23: An unplanned and lonely hibernation

Friday:  When I went to church Sunday (five days ago), I had no idea that I would hardly leave the house again all week--except to shovel snow. I have shoveled a LOT of snow these few days! And it isn't just the snow we are struggling with here in W. Michigan, but the COLDest weather we have seen around here for quite a few years. Today's high temperature is 1. ONE degree. I believe it went down to 8 below zero last night, and it is expected to be a few degrees MORE below zero tonight.

I am extremely hesitant to drive when it is this cold and snowy. The road treatments are less than optimal! And people drive like they have lost their minds. I am pretty sure I never accelerated beyond 40 mph on the drive to church Sunday, and cars were flying by going the usual 60 mph. It was icy out there! I approached a red light, at some distance, and had a very difficult time stopping before sliding right through the intersection. That was quite enough drama for me, thank you. 

I did get rather desperate yesterday because I was out of milk, eggs, cabbage (!!) and a few other necessities; so I went as far as Family Fare over on Northland (about 2 miles) and stopped at the bank on the way. I was super glad to get back home safely.

Here is what really tells how hesitant I am to drive: I have NOT driven anywhere I wanted to drive to photograph the beautiful snow by Lake Michigan, or even rivers and creeks nearby! It's just too cold, and I guess it must be my age that tells me to stay warm, dry, safe, etc. I've seen photos others have taken this week--gorgeous pictures--and have wished with all my heart that it was me out there snapping beautiful pictures. Sigh.

The birds have been very active at my feeders--which necessitates me going OUTSIDE to refill the feeders every few days. I love watching the birds!

Look how crazy the feeders look all piled with snow!

This was my front yard yesterday after I was finished shoveling. My back and shoulders have not been happy about all of the lifting, but what can I do?

It snowed nonstop all day yesterday. I think we added another 3-4" out here. This is my front porch at about 5:30 last night. I've kept most of it shoveled.

This is a shot of the front this morning ... we are buried in white stuff. It's a good thing I can appreciate the beauty of winter, because otherwise I would find this isolation a little bit unbearable.

I remember back in October one afternoon while I was talking with Jesse out in his yard, that he mentioned/predicted something about this upcoming winter being brutally harsh and frigid. I asked him what he based that predilection upon--he pointed to the acorns that were strewn all over his lawn. Jesse said the number of acorns were so in excess of normal that it pointed to a severe winter. !!

Speaking of Jesse, he drove over to see me Tuesday afternoon and brightened my day a whole lot. We visited upwards of two hours. I'd had to cancel my usual Tuesday with the grandchildren because schools were closed and the roads were terrible. Plus, I was supposed to have Erin overnight tonight but I can't even imagine driving the distance to and from their house to collect her and then return her tomorrow. I am feeling badly about it, because I kind of gave her my word. She has been waiting awhile for "her turn" and tonight was that night. Hopefully, she will forgive her old grandma and we can do it another weekend very soon.

January 16 A little sparrow

Friday:  I woke up this morning with a small but distinct agenda--I was to cut up a large broccoli into very small pieces, do the same with a large head of cauliflower, add to that 1C of chopped red onion, 1/2 pound of chopped bacon, 1/2 C of chopped pecans and a half cup of golden raisins before making the very delicious dressing that I would stir into this huge salad--because tonight there was supposed to be a "gathering" of our Calvary class that included a potluck dinner. I was just about finished cutting up all of the vegetables when I received a text from the class social leader informing me that the social had been cancelled due to the winter advisory we were under. 

My first thought: "What on earth am I going to do with this huge salad and no one to serve it to?" I still haven't answered that question at 7pm tonight. I have a mind to put it into small disposable containers and see if any of my neighbors want to enjoy this very delicious salad. I haven't decided. 

I finished making the salad, added the dressing, and it is now chilling overnight in my refrigerator. I admit I felt rather downhearted for the first hour after receiving notice of the cancellation; but then I realized how selfish this was of me and turned instead to giving thanks that I didn't have to drive in bad weather tonight. It has been snowing all day. It is very beautiful when it is new snow!

Midway through my day, I noticed many beautiful birds visiting my feeders. I had the usual blue jays (four of them!) and a few woodpeckers too. I decided to snap a few pictures of this cute little white throated sparrow who spent a long time at my window feeder:

I got very close to the feeder to snap these pictures with my phone, and this little guy was completely undisturbed by my presence. I love it when that happens.

January 13 A few pictures

Tuesday:  I had a few very nice hours with the kiddos today after school. Nothing really exceptional to report, except Aidan was especially polite and kind today -- I note this only because at times, he can be a little bit hard on me with his "demands." Today, he requested very nicely the things he desired and I complied enthusiastically. 

Our young Mr. Callaghan was his usual outrageous self ... but so cute, it's difficult to reprimand him!

Mr. Cal --what universe do you hail from?!?!?

I snapped a quick picture of Brendan before he could protest ... and I neglected to get even a single picture of Erin today. Pooh.

I sure love you kiddos!